The Virgo Coconut Oil.

There has been too many fiasco about the Homemade Natural Coconut Oil. As a matter of fact, for the purpose of Health, Hair and SkinCare Benefits, people have now formed the habit of adding it to their shopping carts.

The Homemade Coconut Oil has a long list of benefits i.e

•Protects the Skin from U.V Rays.

•Improves Dental Health

•Relieves Skin irritation and Eczema

•Improves Brain Function e.t.c

But for whatever reason you need Coconut Oil for, you have to be guarded to get it from the right Manufacturer. As a matter of fact, below is a recommendable Coconut Oil that has proven to be the best in the Market.

Not all Coconut Oil are Natural. Most of them are adulterated and contain too many additives and chemicals.

The Virgo Coconut Oil is naturally made and doesn’t contain chemicals or additives. Making things interesting, the Virgo Coconut Oil is made through a natural process. The unrefined Coconut oil has all the extra nutritional benefits of the Coconut oil. The Virgo Coconut Oil can also be used as a beauty product. Although, many Coconut oil have been designed for beauty purposes, the Virgo Coconut oil stands out more.

The Virgo Coconut Oil comes in different sizes

So, when next you are looking to Restock your beauty products, health products e.t.c, make sure to add THE VIRGO OIL to your cart!

Love,Koco💕

Proverbs 29:11

I hope it isn’t too late to wish y’all a “Happy New Month”. I love y’all so dearly and I don’t think I can express how grateful I am for the “truckload” of support you have shown me since the birth of my “Baby Project”.

Everyday, in all honesty, I tend to grasp lessons from experiences. Not just in reality though but on Social Media. Especially on twitter which brings me to today’s Dose of Koco’s Heaven.

ANGER!

Anger according to Merriam-Webster Dictionary is “A strong feeling of displeasure and usually of ANTAGONISM”

I have said words in anger to people that I wish to take back if I was granted the opportunity. I have made so many decisions out of Anger and Animosity that I pray to God silently to give me the chance to edit those decisions.

When we are angry, we tend to make hasty decisions that is never effective at that point in time. Anger subdues us, our peace of mind and the ability to purely express our sole feelings, intentions, purpose, judgements and ideas.

Why didn’t Moses enter into the land of “Milk and Honey?”

Moses attempted to lead the Children through the Deserts. In his attempt, the Children of Israel run shut of water and Moses approached God about the charade. He comes back with explicit set of instructions on what to do not forgetting the number of steps.

“Take your rod; get your brother Aaron; gather the people before the rock, speak to the rock, give everyone a drink.

Moses “partly” did as the lord commanded. He took the staff, gathered the people and his brother inclusive. In the midst of this, he lost his temper.

Listen, you rebels, must we bring you water out of this rock?” Then Moses raised his arm and struck the rock twice with his staff. Water gushed out, and the community and their livestock drank.” – Numbers 20:9-11.

Notice, if you are familiar with this scripture, you will notice that God instructed Moses to simply speak to the rock! but as we can all detect, Moses lost sight of the lord’s commandment and struck the rod on the rock twice!

Moses was the Lord’s chosen! He had a front Row seat of the Lords privileges, miracles, and signs and wonders but the act of Anger cost him dearly. He was forfeited from seeing the promise land.

We all get angry. It’s an unavoidable emotion. When you are angry, there’s so much rage that flows within you. Your adrenaline feels like it’s going to burst out any minute but it doesn’t stop there. Anger wants a reaction. It wants a response.

I too have had my own share of terrible responses to anger. For instance, there was a time I got into a fight and almost stabbed a girl and another time where I exchanged brutal words with an elder. At that moment, all I wanted to do was release all that pent’ up energy and rage. As soon as it subsided, and the negative emotions were expelled, I felt a truckload of guilt and self reproach.

How do you Deal with Anger?

The key to dealing with Anger is……apt.

When you detect anger in yourself, slow down, step back, zip up the lips and take control of your mind. Take some time to think about where your anger is coming from. What is causing anger in you? What started it? Also reflect on the consequences of your anger. What damage will you do to yourself and others if you let it go unchecked

Turn your frustrations, disappointments and offenses to God. Seek and ask for his help. Ask that he extinguishes the unsung emotion from you. Forgive people. Note that every disappointment is s blessing. Accept them and know that God is the only one with the perfect time and plan.

Last but not the least, have the Determination to keep your anger in check not just for yourself but for your sanity and others.

Hope I spoke to someone today?

Love, Koco💕

A night at my balcony

It is 7:26pm and there’s no better time to enjoy Gods gift of cool air.

I have nothing to write about per say but for sure as digress with the sensational night air, I’ll figure something out.

7:36pm. It’s coming!

I think humans basically have problems with communication. Personal Rapport.

Communication revolves in all aspects of life but my main concern today will be Relationships and Communication.

Basically people confuse Communication with Conversations. What most of fail to understand is that there’s a lot of contrast between Communication and Conversations.

In layman’s term, Conversation is a mere interaction between two individuals. Communication is conveying thoughts and words with sentiments into meaningful actions.

Lack of communication ruins everything because instead of knowing how the other person feels, we just assume.

What does your partner need?

There are different things humans needs. Once you discover what your partner needs, you will know how to communicate better in a way that satisfies and fulfills them.

1. Certainty

2. Significance

3. Connection and Love.

4. Growth.

Too often, we say “I love you” in order to settle differences, dispatch quarrels and arguments without showing “Real tangible love”. Everyday, wittingly or consciously show your partner how much you appreciate and love them.

Listen!! Communication isn’t about talking. Both parties have to be active listeners. Listen to what your partner has to say rather than being super defensive or manipulative. If you have problems, say it! Don’t make little comments or chip in small talks. They are silly and immature.

“Talk things through before they actually happen”. This is an excerpt I took from a blog I read few days ago.

“Babe, I am sorry I’ll be all over the place for the next two weeks” That way, she knows whatever is happening isn’t her fault or his fault and him/her refer back to when you’re feeling stressed. Choose the perfect timing to talk about things. Do not communicate with your partner when you’re in a hurry or when he is in a hurry. Do not be petty about the timing. You’ll know the perfect timing.

Compliment each other!

Take your time to compliment each other. When you get too comfortable with yourselves, you tend to easily bring up the problems that bothers you. Point out what you appreciate and love about each other. Never stop flirting!

Communicate. Even when it’s uncomfortable and uneasy. Take your time to say how you feel. One of the effects of communication is HEALING!

11:33pm.

Love, Koco💖

MY BOWL OF ICE-CREAM

Top of the Evening to y’all. Hope you had a lovely week. I did. I think. The weekend is just getting started and I am already fagged out because foreign has lots of duties to handle and foreign girl isn’t prepared for it.

Writing relieves me. The mollification that goes on during the aftermath of my writing sessions is in every way soothing. For me, it is my therapy.

I made a huge discovery about my self today.

Adaptation is difficult!!!!

Difficult in every level!!

I have found it difficult to adapt to environmental and behavioral changes although the behavioral adaptation wavers at some point.

Ah! Ah! I have twisted some people’s mind abi?

Oya let me break it with a short narrative.

My family and I are moving to a larger space. I came back today only for my father to inform me that our moving will be finalized between today and tomorrow although we will be sleeping at the new space today. Everything became surreal to me.

I told you’ll before. I am an over-thinker.

So imagine the thousands of thoughts that flew into my head once he broke the news.

Am I really prepared for this?

Am I actually prepared for this?

So I have to recreate memories again?

I think I am just super stressed.

I need a lot of things.

I need a hug. Lots of it.

I just want to be babied 😩😩😩

I deserve to be babied😩😩😩😩😩

I want to go to the ends of the earth and scream at the top of my voice. This is a form of therapy too.

I need to talk to someone. I want to talk to someone. Someone that isn’t going to castigate my narratives.

And most of all, I need a bowl of ice cream so that when I start to shed tears at my story, my bowl of ice cream will help to ease the tension.

Love, Koco💕

Anybody? Anyone?

“Sometimes I ask myself, how do people do it? How do you stay sane in phases, how do you conquer rock holes and bottoms? How is it easy to keep yourself together and not blow up in difficult stages? I need help. I need someone to teach me. I feel like a volcano that’s about to erupt in split seconds. It is injury time and I am at the verge of breaking.”

I want to survive so bad.

No! I am not thinking suicide. Life is to precious to extinguish.

I want a quick escape from this phase. I have talked to God about it. He seems to listen. I hope he is listening. Everyday, I wake up in the morning with the expectation of “God’s Perfect Timing“. When exactly is his timing? I won’t push the question further because Gods ways are not known to man and a day is like a thousand years in his sight.

I help people. I give. I render hope. Wether it is financially, morally and mentally. I do it.

At the end of the day, when I do these things,I mean help people, i hear them say “God bless you”, “My fine daughter, God to reward you, “Kneel down make I pray for you”. Unending prayers and request from people to my creator on my behalf.

At the market I always go to, there’s a particular old woman I helped a long time ago. Funny thing is that it was just a little favor. Up till today, anytime she sees me, disregarding the fact that I don’t buy anything from her, she hails and prays for me in our local dialect.

No! I am not the type that does something and waits for a blessing or a reward but I am the type that abets or offers assistance to people in need with a clean and pitiful heart, expecting nothing in return but going down on my knees with so much heartache and pains asking my creator “When is my time?”

Is there actually an easy way out?

Apart from prayers and letting you supplications be made known to God, what else do I need to do to find peace? I have been searching for that for 5months now and I still haven’t found it yet.

Is there anything else I need to do to find peace?

Certain group of people attach me to certain negative characters that I have never ever in real life actualized. I want to let go of these people but I seem stuck to them forever.

Is there a way out? How do I let go of them?

I am at the point of breaking.

“Anybody, Anyone?”

Despite All

Y’all!!!! It’s 2020 in few hours!! 💃🏽💃🏽

I am so geeked for the new year; howbeit, I wasn’t so pumped for it as at yesterday. Reasons best known to me.

Yes? I know you’ve come across tons of blogs that have bestowed several ways, collections of attitudes and demeanor on how to survive the new year. Well, Mine is going to be wholly different.

APPRECIATION!

I GREW IN 2019: Yes i did! Exceptionally as a matter of fact. One thing is to diversify between the Good and the Bad and the other is to abide in the satisfaction of doing the right thing no matter the consequences and push aside the “substandardness” and with full blown confidence I can state for a fact that I walked in that path.

I learnt a lot of lessons from lapse and experiences and turned those lemonades into lemon juice.😄

I Worked On My Relationship With God: Imagine a man laying a foundation for his house and all of a sudden, he lit out. Well, that was basically how my relationship with God looked like. I had my doubts about God. Phases made me question his presence and usefulness. With the help of friends, articles and the body of Christ, I pinched myself back to reality and got a better perspective of who God truly is. Howbeit, I am still in the process of growth towards the Christian faith, I am glad of how far I have come and where I am heading to.

The art of “Keeping Shut”: Not everything that happens with you wether good or bad should be spoken about. Somethings are better left unspoken. I am an open book or rather, I had been an open book so mastering the art of “Keeping Shut” was a hard one.

Now look who is a PRO in the art. ME!

Writing Became My Therapist: Oh Yea!

Blocks of words became my confidant. Expressing my self in orthography and words relieved me fifty percent of my stress. I am super super grateful for it.

I have so many things and persons to be grateful for. I just might run out of words to express my gratification.

Shout out to everyone who prayed for me and with me. Shout to the ones I lost and won this year. Shout out to the ones that contributed to my growth. I wholly appreciate. Special Special shout out to my family❤️, My Partner(D)❤️❤️ and my Best friend (O)❤️❤️. Y’all have been super super amazing.

Thanks to everyone of you for the views, comments, subscriptions, reviews and criticisms. I love y’all so much.

2020✨✨✨

THE 💰 YEAR✨✨

Love, Koco💕

S.T.U.R.V.S💞

Hi guys.How are you all doing?Well, I am good😁Below is a picture of how beautiful I looked today.P.S: I didn’t go out with the Danshiki🙄Thank you. Thank you. I can hear your compliments.🤣🤣.The difficulty that comes with beginning a paragraph Is on another level.🙄But I’ll begin.I am beautiful. I am special. I deserve the finer things in life. My blemishes and flaws are beautiful. I do not have to seek validation from friends, family and foes to become what or who I want to become. I will be what I want to be when God approves it.It’s been one hell of a week. Struggling and fighting to save myself from myself. I became a shadow of who I was disregarding who I am meant to be. I needed my nights to end the minute it began and my mornings to last longer. My mind and thoughts were totally in shambles.I totally wanted to quit writing. I just wanted to exist but not exist.My insecurities became parasitic.Before I go on, if you are close to anybody at the moment, hug that person and tell them how much they matter and how unique they are.I wanted to talk to somebody. I needed to talk to somebody. I needed to unleash my fury and cry till the tears in my eyes dried up. For once! I craved for somebody to understand me in as much as it was difficult to Express myself to anyone.“Envy steals your joy. Human perfection isn’t real. Ignore the picture perfect facades and look at all your blessings instead”.Questions of whys and when became my thing.Not until yesterday night. I had to get on my knees and talk to my father. I had a conversation with him for quite a while. The burden and thoughts were becoming weighty and I was becoming somber.After my prayers, I felt peace. I finally got the tranquility I prayed for. All these while, my solution was right in front of me but I took it lightly and finally ignored it.The point of today’s post is Appreciation, Beauty in your Blemish and Love.God loves you. The fact that he took a day for your creation shows how special and beautiful you are. No one is you and that is your power. Never compare yourself with others because your existence is a blessing already. No one is perfect. I tell you today that everyone of us have scars. Everyone of us has something we are hiding or running from.“Envy is the way to insanity”. Because I haven’t gotten to where I want to be doesn’t mean I won’t get to where I want to be.“The farmer plants the maize seeds at the same time but harvests them at distict times.” God’s plan is for every single one of us to be happy. The fact that your prayers hasn’t been answered doesn’t mean he isn’t listening. He is listening. In fact, he is there with you. All he wants is for you to be patient and he definitely will answer.Love yourself. Loveeeee yourseeeellfff!!!!! Stay sane for yourself! Play selfish once in a while. Glow and smile just like your father.You are in the world for yourself and no other. No matter how much we fall in love and appreciate people, at the end of the day, it is “a” person to the grave. You are leaving the world with just yourself and no other person.So take a day to pamper yourself.Just Grow and mature safely and learn to pick lessons out of phases.I love you all💞Koco💞